Should I take my Ex-Girl friend back?

Question

My exG/F and I broke up back in December after my wife came back into my life. My wife left me in July of 07then said she made a big time mistake when she left. my g/f at the time her name was kelly we just meet at work when the wife said good bye foreve. I was devestated but I knew it was coming for a long time. we had seperate sleeping quarters and we had been talking about how was to keep the house. She decide to leave so I was the only one in the house. I met kelly at work we started be friend and then we got really close. I mean really close we did everything together we spent time day in and day out. well around november of 07 the wife relized she made a hug mistake and I guess her relationship didnt work out with her docotor friend. so she decided she wanted to give my marriage another chance. I told kelly about it and kelly thought I was crazy for even considering taking her back. LIke a fool I gave the wife a second chance. kelly is pissed we broke up. Did I s***w up>?

Answer 1

The answer is in what you want out of a relationship.Why is your heart ?Marriage is about happiness not sentiment.But divorce is not too healthy

Answer 2

I don't know.  It depends.  How do you feel about your wife?  Do you really love her or do you love Kelly?  Your wife did mess up and it was wonderful for you to give her another chance, but what I am wondering here is this:  Why did you really take your wife back?  You must have loved her because you chose her over Kelly.  So even if she is mad at you, stay true to whom you love, and it sounds like it is your wife.  However, if you discovered that you loved Kelly during the time your wife split and you are sure you want to be with her, then tell your wife it is not going to work out, divorce her, and marry Kelly.

Answer 3

I don't think either of them can trust you if both of them know that you were with the other one. Don't worry about who you pissed off the most, be with the one who you truly love and want to be with. Try to make things better with that person and cut the other one off completely! It will only make things confusing if you keep talking to or seeing the other one.

Answer 4

No it's what you wanted to do at the time.

Kelly was the transitional girl.

Now what is going on with you and the wife ?

Answer 5

Yesss man!  You did s***w up!

I mean, you left the girl who helped you and understand you when you had heart problems, to get back with the girl who was s******g another guy better than s******g you?

The best partner has to be the best friend first, man!

wtf r u doing?  Kelly came to help you because she loved you, she befriended you and believed in you.

Looks like you needed to unload some revenge or try to "win"something back... but in this case, you needed to be a man and tell your ex-wife to go f**k herself and keep your real girl-friend Kelly.

At least, I hope for you that your wife gave you a VERY VERY GOOD REASON to allow her into your life again.

Cheers.