My husband got his disability ands his ex wants him to?

Question

give some of it to his daughter and grandson, wouldn't you be a little pissed? The daughter is an adult and she can speak for herself. The ex is a nosy b#*&h!

Answer 1

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Answer 2

i would tell him to talk to his daughter. thats between him and her.because its your busu too your his wife. just make sure its not a set up

Answer 3

i THINK YOU ARE BEING THE controlling person. Your husband should do as he likes. BTW children do still need help from their parents even AFTER they are grown. He did not stop being a grandfather and father because his kid got older "over 18" he SHOULD help his family if he's able NO MATTER the age of his daughter she is HIS daughter. I've been married 13 years i'lve never tell my hubby what to do what his children. Yeah dead beat dads make me bitter new wifes that step on the toes of children make me bitter.

Answer 4

I would be pissed too. I have two stepdaughters so i know how u feel. If she really needs help to take care of her baby or something she knows where dads at. And yes it is your business. Your married to him and your finances should be together. Whats yours is his and whats his is yours. I wouldn't just give her money to give it to her only if she needed help. Good Luck!!

Answer 5

helll yeahhh! id be pisseed asss hellll, lol.

Answer 6

you don't want a awswer you just want to hear from people who agree. PERSONALLY i think a dad should help his family whenever possible. It's not about money it's about family.  

Answer 7

If shes an adult-- she's on her own.

Tell the ex to P!zz off

Answer 8

It's your husbands money NOT yours. If he wants to give his daughter and grandson money he can.

The ex is just doing her part as a mother to make sure her child and grandchild have what they need.

Stop being immature about this. Calling her a nosy ***** just makes you look insecure in your marriage and with yourself. It's not a nice characteristic to have.

No I would not be pissed. The father can simply call the daughter and see if she actually needs the money.

Answer 9

Maybe the daughter is hesitant to ask... Considering your tone I'm not surprised.

In my experience, when I have needed financial help I haven't asked my parents for it because I've been too stubborn and proud to ask...but since they are such wonderful, involved, generous people they have always been there for me when I financially needed it.  My life and my son's life are better because of them and I am truly grateful.

My advice? Do what you can to help her and her son and give with a glad heart.  

Answer 10

On the one hand, I agree that it's proper for your husband to give some of the disability money to his daughter, but on the other hand, I can well understand why you're upset about this. Money is a strong bind and as such serves as a link to his previous marriage and previous life, so I think you're right to want him focused entirely on his new marriage with you and new life together.