My 6 and 8 yr old stepsons are still taking a bath together!?

Question

My husband and I are having a difficult time. Our sons still take a bath together at their mom's house. They are 6 and 8. We think they are too old and we have issues with this every time they come home. We don't want to speak down about their mother to them ie: "your mom shouldn't be letting you bathe together" but how can we make this less of a battle? They do what we say but they don't understand why. Can anybody give me some advice on how to talk to them?

Answer 1

to Guest 9165
You should be paying more attention to what your doing, the kids are too old to be bathing together- or 6 is max!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Two boys bathing together is fine -they have the same parts don't they? And they don't appear to be protesting, but your kids are way way too old!!!!!!I suspect your son has probably tried to assert his modesty and you completely ignored him-way to go Mom!!!!!!