I need a deep deep deep quote..?

Question

about a loss of a family member and living life and making your soul fire and to kindle that flame until it ends

Answer 1

Here are some:

"Sorrow teaches us that our ideals need to send down deep roots into the world of reality, and then to take the width of heaven for their growing space."--Bonaro W. Overstreet

'When grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates.  You must wait till grief be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it."--Samuel Johnson

"It is dangerous to abandon one's self to the luxury of grief; it deprives one of courage, and even of the wish for recovery"--Henri Frederic Amiel

Answer 2

"Dont cry becuase its over, smile becuase it happend"

-Dr. Suess