How do i get my ex boyfriend back?

Question

my ex boyfriend wont go out with me anymore because his dad says he will chuck him out if he does at first he was just going to pretend he wasn't with me but his dad found out about that plan and now he reffuses to go out with me and i don't want to lose him not now just for the sake of his stupid dad god it feels like bloody real life romeo and juliet :(

Answer 1

Tell your ex boyfriend that he needs to make a stand with his dad by telling him he's forcing him to break away from the family by making him choose and that this isn't the unconditional love a father is supposed to show his son. It's not like he's taking drugs, stealing and lying is it? Look up options for your ex moving out. If someone is getting thrown out the council sometimes steps in. If your ex is too cooshy at home to fight for you, he's not worth it. He might realise what he's missing and be motivated to fight for you if you back off and make sure you look and act amazing around him but not looking too keen on him. Be flirty and friendly but act like you've moved on. Make sure you stay single though. One of the best ways of attracting someone and looking like you're worth the effort is to make sure they know without actually rubbing it in their face that you're available but still wanted by other men and could be snatched up at any moment.

Remember, the difference between your relationship issue and Romeo and Juliet's is that they fought for their love (and ended up dead but that's not the point I was making). Romeo didn't just say "my dad doesn't like you" and move on

Answer 2

offer him somewhere to live

move in together or he wont

Answer 3

I've learned one thing over the years. When someone desires to walk out of my life whether it be friend or lover...I let them walk!

Answer 4

can you tell me how i can get my present bf out with me?? coz he is so OFFF in dates.

Answer 5

Sounds like you're flogging a dead horse here my sweet. If he really wanted to go out with you he wouldn't give a d**n what his dad thought.

Answer 6

i dont know how old you are or how long you have been together but if your old enough and been together long enough then maybe consider moving in somewhere together...

the other thing is, do you know for a fact its his dad that wants you two to split up or is it possible its him chickening out? i dont mean that nastily but sometimes men are pathetic and major chickens when it comes to commitment!

and if it is his dad then why doesnt he want you together?? if it is an age thing then im afraid you have to go with it as his dad is his legal guardian - doesnt mean he knows what is best for his son though lol

but if he is over 18 then tell your ex to stand up to him!  

Answer 7

Look for someone who wants to be with you, and someones family who enjoys your company.