Do you think cybersex is cheating?

Question

I had cybersex although the other person wanted to use a web-cam but I didn't want to. Do you think that's considered being unfaithful?

Answer 1

Matthew 5:28

But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

Just. By. Looking.

Answer 2

Yes it's cheating.  You were doing whatever it was you were doing while thinking of someone other than your significant other.  And I don't just mean some sort of fantasy, you were talking or typing to or watching a real person.  This is way over the line.  You should not be putting yourself in a position to be turned on by someone else if you are in a relationship.  

Here's the way to know if you've gone too far - would you have done this if your girlfriend/boyfriend had been in the room with you?  Any time you would have to change your behavior if your partner could see or hear you, then you are doing something you know they wouldn't approve of and that is cheating.

As to whether your cyber s*x buddy has feelings for you, how the heck should I know?    

Answer 3

Yes, I would consider it unfaithful.

Answer 4

person probably does not have feelings for you but yes I view it as Mentally cheating..if you can do that when you are with someone you will probably really have s*x with someone as well..

Answer 5

YES THAT'S CHEATING

Answer 6

Yep it's cheating

Answer 7

Yes, how would you feel if your partner did it, imagine it! Then ask yourself this question again. Still, it is cheating, no question about it!

Answer 8

My ex-wife doesn't think so, but I did.

Answer 9

Yes cyber s*x is cheating and No I do not think that the person cares about you or he would not be asking you to do this

Answer 10

What i think,what others think - is irrelevant ....

I bet you'll get different answers to ur question depending on what kinda people answer it.

So the main thing u have to consider is this:

What ur boyfriend thinks about it.....

What u think about it.....

Try to put urself in his shoes & then visualize how u'd feel if ur boyfriend had done cyber s*x...

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u said if that cyber fello has feelings for u?

Only u know that BUT the web gurus always tell us not to trust anyone so easily online....

And if u really like that cyber guy,then do spend some time with him Online,then may be meet him(in a public place),then decide what u wanna do.

But if u really love ur boyfrend ,then please dont cheat on him by meeting this guy as he'd feel very bad if u date this guy....

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[My response(ur boyfrend may react otherwise)]

If i were your boyfriend , i would had treated it as unfaithfulness!! Yes...Bcoz:-

Y do we do s*x???To get pleasure(isn't it)....

Y do we do cyber s*x?Again,to get pleasure...

It's not only physical,itz also mental(for example,if we kiss & hug a stranger,we feel sexually BUT if we hug our father/mother/brother/sister/a child/ or an elderly person , we dont feel that way....See,itz not only physical....)

I am not saying itz as bad as having physical s*x,but it is not good too....

If my girlfrend has cyber s*x,may be i can still forgive her if she still loves me and is sorry for what she's done !

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Thatz what i think...Rest is about how u & ur boyfrend think...Different people think differently....

Answer 11

yes it is considered as cheating.anything with any kind of s*x is cheating.usually they don't have any kind of feelings for you.they just want one thing and one thing only after he gets it you probably wont hear from him again but if you do and its like weeks later then yea definitely that's all he wants